There is nothing greater than to get to the end of our old selves and move into the endless possibilities that lie ahead. The challenge is understanding that desperation precedes all meaningful change. How do you know that you are in this place? That is a great question. However, if you have to ask, you may be close but not quite there. Our tolerance may have reached levels that haven’t allowed us to break free from whatever seems to prevent us from doing whatever is the next right thing. Until the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of change, we won’t. The good news is your feelings of desperation are just what you need. Right now, what you are experiencing those feelings are the catalyst for an active impulse to change. It’s a gift and can only help if you open it.

Victor Lee Aug 8, 2026

GBB “Inspirational” Blog